INTJ Secrets (You Would be Shocked to Hear)

In this brief guide, we will discuss some lesser-known INTJ secrets and other related concepts such as the INTJ personality traits, things INTJs say, as well as some famous INTJ people and INTJ characters in fiction.

Secrets of INTJ personality

The INTJ personality is also known as the architect, and these people have some amazing secrets to their personality that not many people know about, like:

  • They may be too afraid to act.
  • They are incredibly smart.
  • The average INTJ thinks all the time.
  • They are constantly analyzing their environment.
  • They are not as threatening as they sound.
  • They can be quite sensitive.
  • They need someone to give them space.
  • They need to solve problems as soon as they see them.
  • They are intellectually oriented.

The INTJ personality may seem secretive because of their tendency to think so much but really, they are not that secretive or intimidating, and once you know how their brain works it is relatively easy to get along with an INTJ.

The secret to getting to know an INTJ is simply to let them be and watch them work and talking to an INTJ about something they are interested in can be another great idea because when it comes to things they are interested in, INTJ can be as interested in talking as an ENTP.

The secret world of the INTJ is full of networks of information that is all interconnected according to bits of facts and figures, which they then act on with their thinking function.

The INTJ likes to analyze and assess, which is not exactly a secret, but they can be rather slow to act on things because their thinking function is introverted and not extroverted, therefore these people may often find themselves paralyzed with indecision even when they want to act on something.

Of course, when someone is slow to act it also follows that they likely want to make sure everything is as perfect as possible and as a result, they tend to be very perfectionistic and the INTJ secret to success is quite simply the level of perfection that goes into everything they do.

INTJ Personality Traits

INTJ stands for Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging, and this is an MBTI personality type.

This type is also known as the architect, likely due to the networks of information the build in their heads and the tendency they have to construct and deconstruct ideas to analyze them in an almost mathematical manner. 

The INTJ, using their excellent logical and analytical introverted intuition, may be able to see ten steps ahead and predict what might happen in a certain situation, but they may have trouble acting on it because they are more thinking oriented than planning or execution-oriented.

This function in the INTJ helps them to find a perfect solution to new problems and challenges, and while the other functions serve more in the background.

There are some drawbacks to this function though, for instance, the INTJ might not necessarily feel like doing things they think are boring in any way because they might find their inner world to be just as real, or even more, sometimes, and when they find themselves caught up in a chore they don’t want to do, they may start daydreaming.

The INTJ also expects things to be a certain way because they find that when things don’t fit into their preconceived notions, the minor flaws stick out to them far too much and they feel like they need to criticize everything, and they don’t like this tendency anymore than other around them do.

Jung talks about the introverted Intuition function and says: 

“In this way, introverted intuition perceives all the background processes of consciousness with almost the same distinctness as extraverted sensation registers external objects. For intuition, therefore, unconscious images acquire the dignity of things. But, because intuition excludes the co-operation of sensation . . . . the images appear as though detached from the subject, as though existing in themselves without any relation to him. Consequently, in the above-mentioned example, the introverted intuitive, if attacked by vertigo, would never imagine that the image he perceived might in some way refer to himself. To a judging type [thinking or feeling] this naturally seems inconceivable, but it is nonetheless a fact.”

The INTJ is often very good with action, at least when they are not paralyzed with what to do because of the plethora of options they have in front of them, because they do not want to be rash and unpredictable.

However, while the INTj is in no way rash, they can make decisions easily and quickly, and they may usually choose to act on the decision the minute it has been finalized.

The INTJ may sometimes be introspective in a typical Introverted fashion, but these times are shortlived and they won’t ponder over the unknown for too long, they would much rather focus on the things that can be observed and analyzed, and they would much rather take care of real-world things than dwell in some secret INTJ world.

The INTJ may sometimes also get far too obsessed with details that don’t matter, and hypothetically this personality may often be prone to obsessive-compulsive disorder or obsessive-compulsive personality disorder.

If you’re facing this, it may be a good idea to seek the help of a therapist or other mental health professional. You can find a therapist at BetterHelp who can help you learn how to cope and address it.

Things INTJs Say

There is no better way to get to know the INTJ than to hear directly from them and look at some things INTJs say.

There are many forums where people go to talk about personality types and how every personality tends to cope with their shortcomings and what they find good about their personalities.

Reddit is one such forum where one might find many topics for any personality types and get to see the kind of things INTJs say about the various challenges they face.

For instance, here are some user responses from a discussion about some commons things INTJs say:

“No, I’m not saying that’s -my- opinion, I’m saying that it’s an opinion some people have.”

“Why would you argue in favor of something you don’t agree with?” “Well… because i like the perspective? And I like showing people perspectives.” … “and maybe I’m showing off… just a little…”

“You could just google that”

“I don’t want to rule the world, I just think it could be more sensibly organized.”

Yes, I know that already.”

“How in the world could someone come to think/believe something so stupid?”

“But… that makes no sense. It’s completely illogical.”

“The same thing we do every night, Pinky: Try to take over the world!”

 “This is stupid. Why do I have to do this?” “Please leave me alone! Please! Ugh.” “Am I supposed to say something? You didn’t ask me a question.”

“If you had just listened to me the first time then you wouldn’t be annoying standing in front of me right now…”

“You shouldn’t be offended, I didn’t mean to offend you.”

“I don’t believe everything I think.”

“Person: ‘I did this stupidly easy thing that you should be impressed by, like actually completing my college assignment!’ INTJ: ‘What do you want, a medal?’”

While these are great examples of things INTJs would say, there are also, apparently, things that an INTJ would never say, some of which are:

“Who cares who was right. How did it make you feel?”

“Who cares what larger forces are at work here? Let’s just gossip about our acquaintances.”

“Come over any time, no need to call.”

An INTJ on the same forum describes what the INTJ is really like, and some things they are saying make perfect sense:

“INTJ’s generally aren’t anti-social, in fact for the introverted types they are one of the most outgoing as we like to study how others act. We may not talk to everyone at a party, but we will study how everyone else interacts, and at least to myself, I find this entertaining in and of itself… especially when alcohol is involved.”

Famous INTJ People 

Here is a list of some of the most famous INTJ people:

  • Hillary Clinton
  • Dwight B. Eisenhower
  • Jane Austen
  • Al Gore
  • Colin Powell
  • Donald Rumsfeld
  • Julia Gillard
  • Abigail Adams
  • Vladimir Lenin
  • Augustus Caesar
  • Hannibal Barca
  • Isaac Newton
  • Stephen Hawking
  • Nikola Tesla
  • Charles Darwin
  • Ayn Rand
  • Isaac Asimov
  • Sylvia Plath

INTJ characters in Fiction

Here is a list of some great INTJ characters in Fiction:

  • Belle – Beauty and the Beast
  • Ford Pines – Gravity Falls
  • Stefan Salvatore – The Vampire Diaries
  • Ragnar Lothbrok – Vikings
  • Gandalf – The Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit 
  • Severus Snape – Harry Potter
  • Madame Vastra – Doctor Who  
  • Twelfth Doctor – Doctor Who   
  • Matt Murdock – Daredevil   
  • Stewie Griffin – Family Guy   


In this brief guide, we discussed some lesser-known INTJ secrets and other related concepts such as the INTJ personality traits, things INTJs say, and famous INTJ people and INTJ characters in fiction. Please feel free to reach out to us with any questions or comments you may have.

If you’ve enjoyed the ”INTJ Secrets” mentioned above, I would recommend you to take a look at ”INTJ Memes” too.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs): INTJ Secrets

Why are INTJs so attractive?

INTJ s are so attractive because they are so extremely independent.

INTJs are smart and analytical and make natural leaders, which is an attractive quality in just about anyone.

 INTJ can be both realistic and visionary by nature, which is very rare and therefore, very attractive.

What are INTJs afraid of?

INTJs are afraid of their order and surroundings going into chaos and becoming messy, and they don’t like uncertainty.

INTJ may also be afraid of getting caught in a situation they cannot get out of and INTJ does not like to do things that don’t challenge them mentally.

How do you know if an Intj likes you?

If an INTJ likes you they are likely to spend a lot more time talking to you than other people.

An INTJ who likes you may also show intense, sharp, and otherworldly sort of devotion and attention to you, and they may seem like they are just fascinated by you and how your mind world.

When the INTJ wants to know how you think and what your ideas are, you can be sure that they like you, or at the very least find you interesting.

Why are INTJs so weird?

INTJ can be weird because they are extremely logical and analytical, and they may have a rigid sort of tendency where they want things to be a certain way and may get upset if they aren’t.

No personality type is weird, per se, but sometimes rarer personalities like INTJ may seem strange because they tend to have quirks that put them apart from the crowds.

Do INTJs care about looks?

INTJs do not care about looks alone, and if the person is otherwise great, them being plain looking is not a deal-breaker for the INTJ personality.

The INTJ personality is more cerebral, that is they care about ideas and people more than how they look, so if the INTJ feels that they are connecting with a person who respects themself they are happy.


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